We live, work and life is nothing. Everyone wants in a competitive environment with some success, at least not be eliminated, so we always want to be engaged into doing something. Who is born, there is a dilemma, would like to nurse, much to cry on ; children round, the toys want to play more, his face might leave scratches; would like to have four six certificates, must bear the word back trouble; if you want to live, you have to find a job, if you want the evening have a beer during the day will Juezhuopigu work. From the milk has to work, everything looks like a bait all, instinctive desire to encourage you to bite, once bitten, will be fishing live. For fish, it means their lives, for the people, means more trouble. Unless you are determined to disengaged from living in this mundane world. Unless you are determined from the secular world, fled to Buddhism.
If you went through life refusing all the bait dangled before you, that would be no life at all. No changes would be made and you would have nothing to fight against. Life would be as dull as ditchwater. you could kill yourself by too much cunning. (If you reject all hanging in front of the bait and before this life, it means there is no life nothing changes, nothing to fight. life would be as dead in the water and you will too cunning and destroyed their own.) – by Alan sillitoe Saturday Night and Sunday Morning
Now living a hard choice, can I refuse to bite the bait it? Cut to see the following words:
2, to bind oneself to get into a marrige. Bound himself to marry with others. Therefore, engagement is the meaning of engagement. Since the set, it can not be altered. Chinese old saying “childhood” and “gage” meaning coincides with the second layer.
1, to bind oneself to get into a combat or to enter into contest with somebody. bind themselves to themselves and others struggle or competition.
love and marriage, is it not so? no one do not want to have love and marriage, beautiful women and attractive men is you and me what we want, but once got into it, always love the deeper pain of the more cutting. Even a short separation also makes the other driven to distraction, sleep well. All pay, all the misunderstanding, perhaps the ultimate break up, will make you hurt pains, hurt and injury. So Buddha said that feelings of evil creature. In contrast, love, marriage troubles to worry about than the much lighter. Cut to see the following passage.
pessimistic people say: the more successful, the more trouble; optimistic people say: the more trouble, the more successful. Is pessimistic or optimistic? Actually very simple. Either born in this world, do monks; or accession to the WTO, to be secular. Since the monks do, you might as vulgar optimism that the complete little vulgar, vulgar grandeur. Positive and brave bite of tasty bait, and the firm to pay. Dare to enjoy, happy bear. Remember: Too much cunning kill your life.
2010 年 07 月 09 日
The engaging (charming) smile of a beauty is like a pledge which engages a man into an engagement. And the pledge (token ) will become the man daily and nightly preoccupation.A saint standing by may observe: “you see the fool is entrapped now. But he has not yet bitten the bait. Although he has really licked the bait and found it tasty, he can still disengaged his mouth from it. If he swallow the bite as a whole, he will not be able to get rid of it forever. “charm is the other side of the ear hook, bait love just licked, tasted the taste. The marriage will mean to swallow the bait, from live by fishing, not to get out. Love is a time period of the burden of heart pain, but the burden of marriage is no period of physical and mental suffering.
related words: dilemma engage engaging engaged engagement disengage
To be brought into this world is to be in a dilemma. born in this world is to live dilemma. To engage an example to illustrate this problem.
en-prefix “into”, gage in English there are two meanings, one referring to that challenge and throw the gloves or hat, and the second refers to the green plum or green plums, a symbol token between lovers . So, engage also has two main intention: